In which phase might the abuser show sincere remorse for their actions?

The Remorse Phase is where the abuser may express genuine regret and sorrow for their abusive behavior, acknowledging the emotional and physical harm they have inflicted. During this phase, the abuser may attempt to persuade the victim of their love and commitment to change, which can create confusion and hope in the victim's mind. This phase is characterized by apologies, promises of change, and a temporary cessation of abusive behavior, which can lead the victim to feel encouraged or convinced that the abuser has truly changed.

In contrast, the other phases—such as the Stand-over Phase, Pursuit Phase, and Explosion Phase—do not involve sincere feelings of remorse. The Stand-over Phase is primarily about control and intimidation, the Pursuit Phase involves seeking out the victim often with obsessive and possessive behaviors, and the Explosion Phase is marked by outbursts of anger and violence. None of these phases include a recognition of wrongdoing or efforts to exhibit remorse, underscoring the unique nature of the Remorse Phase in the cycle of abuse.